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The new year is always a popular time for making resolutions, turning over a new leaf, starting with a clean slate, or whatever you choose to call it. I’m sure there are more blog posts on January first each year than any other day.
I spent the entire day working, because that is my resolution: I must bring one of my (too) many projects to fruition this year. I hope to blog about the adventure as often as possible. But, if I want to get this post in on time, I must end it here.
Have a happy, healthy, and prosperous 2015!
I was listening to songs of my youth last night, many were rather sad. I like sad songs. Drinking was not part of the evening’s entertainment because my liver is shot. I can’t have more than a couple of beers without feeling ill. That’s probably a good thing.
Sitting down to the computer this morning, I found YouTube still open in a browser tab, so I played a few more. Mistake. Often, I finish these musical bouts of self-pity and nostalgia with Somewhere Over the Rainbow. Not a huge Judy Garland fan, I just like that song and ,no, I’m not gay. Not that there’s anything wrong with that.
Instead, this morning, my match with melancholy ends with Puff the Magic Dragon. For many, it’s a bittersweet tale of the lost innocence of childhood. It has always been that for me. Afterwards, I took a shower before starting work for the day. I’m in the shower about five minutes (I take long, hot showers), singing Puff,
A dragon lives forever but not so little boys
Painted wings and giant rings make way for other toys.
One grey night it happened, Jackie Paper came no more
And Puff that mighty dragon, he ceased his fearless roar.
His head was bent in sorrow, green scales fell like rain,
Puff no longer went to play along the cherry lane.
and when I get to the next line,
Without his life-long friend, Puff could not be brave,
I start crying like a baby. I was completely overwhelmed with grief. It’s been seven years since my brother’s death. My little brother. Most people who knew the six foot Chief of Police had a different image of him, no doubt. But, to me, he was always and will always be my little brother. And when he really needed me most, I wasn’t there for him. People have said many kind things, the usual things people say. You can’t blame yourself, no one could have known. I knew. And I can never forgive myself. I will never stop missing Patrick, my little brother. And I will never sing that damn song again.
For the first in a series of video updates, I thought I’d warm up with Bony Maroney in my ‘fake-ass Johnny Winter that I haven’t played in years’ style. The slow bit at the end is a transition to the John Lennon cover from his underrated album, Rock n Roll.
My fellow Americans… Happy Independence Day! Hope the holiday weekend has been fun. While we’re busy waving flags, grilling burgers, shooting off fireworks, and shouting “Hooray for US!” let’s remember what this day means.
Today, we celebrate our hard won freedom from an oppressive, tyrannical government which held little regard for the rights of the individual. The many were heavily burdened so a privileged few could benefit. Sound familiar? We won this precious independence by taking up arms and saying, “We’re mad as hell, and we’re not going to take this anymore.”
Just remember that, if we again feel the heavy boot of such would-be kings on our necks, we must be willing to fight again. Enjoy your ball games, your BBQ, your family reunions… and exercise your right to bear arms. Come the revolution brother, you’re on one side or the other.
It’s that time again. Time for a change. I’ve felt this coming for a long time, but it is scary. Partly because I’m not so young anymore. I’m exhausted all the time, in pain every day. I just want relief, not more discomfort. But I know, if there is any hope of getting my life back to good, change I must. Why is it so hard to change, though? In a recent article called Making Change, Dr. Leslie Becker-Phelps suggests the need to develop “compassionate self-awareness.” I like that phrase. It’s the first change I need to make that will enable all the rest.
Change in Relationship Status
I’m becoming single again. I know it is the right thing for both of us, but I’ve never been good at dealing with breakups. I realize I’m hurting her more by extending a relationship that isn’t (and will never be) what she wants, than by ending it. I hope she can see that. I hope we can remain friends. She is a wonderful, loving woman with a bright future and a big heart.
Change in Financial Status
My financial situation is a mess. At my age, with by background, I have little hope of becoming employed again. Perhaps it’s a blessing. I have no patience left and do not suffer fools gladly, even when I’m working for them. I will be exercising my sales muscles, despite my fear and loathing of sales. It’s the only way I can build my online revenue into something livable. Fortunately, it’s something I can do anywhere I have an Internet connection. Which leads me to the scariest part.
Change of Scenery
It’s time to go. I’ve lived in this house (in a state I detest) for five years. That’s twice as long as anywhere else I’ve lived since I was sixteen years old. Wanderlust? No, believe me, I’d much rather settle in somewhere. But where? “LA’s fine but it ain’t home. New York’s home but it ain’t mine no more.” Time has come for a road trip. I have no money, but I can’t delay it any longer. A quarter of a century ago, I left New Jersey with my last (damn small) paycheck in my pocket and the clothes on my back. Put my thumb out on I-95 and I was gone. If I have to, I’ll do the same thing now. It will be hard, no doubt. But staying here is killing me.
Change of Faces
Since the death of my brother in ’06, I’ve been trying to look after my mom. She’s eighty-one now and still manages to push my buttons. My best friend, more like a sister to me, lives here and I will miss her more than words can express. I just can’t stay any longer. There are people and places I want to see before I die. That event isn’t as distant as it once seemed. The time to act is now. Change can be scary. But never changing is death.
In a rare turnabout, I posted to my LiveJournal yesterday and will cross-post it here. I had a WP plug-in that automated the reverse, but I don’t use it anymore. I had only logged into LJ to wish a friend happy birthday. I found a nice suggestion for a blog post topic awaiting me, which I’ve used as the title of this post. My user name on LJ is meanirishtemper. Don’t ask. You don’t want to know. Without further ado, here is my LJ post from yesterday:
I have used the name Rain King online since 1994. I took it from the Counting Crows song of the same name. It was only later that I learned of the Saul Bellow novel, also excellent. I use that name because I feel it describes me… my life. I’ve been blessed with the melancholy celtic spirit. It’s in my blood, the rain, and it calls to me wherever I may run to escape it, physically or emotionally. One day it will take me home; my elusive, dreamed-of home where I truly belong, where I fit in, no where to be found in this world.
So why am I meanirishtemper? Why else? Every variant of the name I wanted was taken, save bizarre numerically-tainted versions like 6969The_Rain_King_666999 or some such nonsense. And it has been pointed out that my temper could use some hmmmm… tempering? My business is Timbury Computer Services and you will find me online as timbury in many places, like http://www.cre8buzz.com a great social network.
Enough of this. I’mback off to IMVU where I am… TheRainKing, of course. Peace.
I’m one of those Linux fanatics who enjoy trying new distros almost constantly. Because of the freedom inherent in the GPL and other “open” licenses, there are always new flavors of my favorite OS springing up. Early spring of last year, I found an Ubuntu-based distro called UbuntuSE. I was attracted to the screenshots of the dark blood-red and black theme. This was essentially Ubuntu with fresh artwork: splash screens, window themes, wallpapers, and amazing 3D screensavers. The SE, it turned out, stood for Satanic Edition.
I consider myself a spiritual person, but I’m not a fan of organized religion. One of the few things that offends me are people who are easily offended. Especially those who believe they somehow deserve to be protected from any speech, image or ideology which they find offensive (typically, anything not their own). I found out there were two similar themed Ubuntus, the Christian Edition and the Muslim Edition. With a few hearty chuckles during installation, Ubuntu Satanic Edition became my desktop for a few months.
Recently, I followed a link which took me to Distrowatch, a well-known and respected site which offers reviews and news of Linux distributions. It is run by Ladislav Bodnar (distro AT distrowatch DOT com). Mr. Bodnar is an intelligent man with an interesting and impressive background. I noticed he had included the Christian and Muslim versions of Ubuntu, but not the Satanic version. I thought it unlikely that he was ignorant of it’s existence, but I sent him a short note just in case.
I wanted to inform you of another “themed” Ubuntu distro,
Ubuntu Satanic Edition or UbuntuSE. The site is
http://ubuntusatanic.org/ and it has been around since
2006. I see you have UbuntuCE and UbuntuME. I would
like to see UbuntuSE included on distrowatch. The artwork
and attention to detail are amazing. After all, Linux is a
“journey of freedom”. Thanks for a great Linux site!
I quoted the phrase “journey of freedom” from Mr. Bodnar’s description of his experience with Linux. I received this response a few hours later:
I don’t feel comfortable with listing this distro on DistroWatch. I am not
religious or anything, but I think there are some limits of what is an
acceptable name for a Linux distribution. Sorry
I ask you to tell me the unvarnished truth. Is this in keeping with the spirit of Linux, open source and freedom? Is this arbitrary dictation of what distro shall be included based on the acceptability of it’s name to the maintainer offensive to anyone else? I think Mr. Bodnar is not telling me the whole story Perhaps he fears some expression of outrage by Christian and Islamic fanatics if he lists the UbuntuSE distro. I can’t really speculate further on his true motivations. I only post this to express my belief in freedom of expression, religious and otherwise. That is one of the reasons I love Linux: the devotion of the community to freedom.
Mr. Bodnar is using his freedom as the site maintainer to censor the Linux community. I don’t think he’s right to do so. I think he needs to re-read his tagline on distrowatch: “Put the fun back into computing.” What do you think?
NYT Headline: 3 Detectives in Bell Shooting Acquitted
Why does this come as no surprise? The defendants waived their right to a jury trial, which many people thought was a risky move. What was risky about it? Instead of having twelve honest citizens decide their fate, they entrusted the decision to an agent of the corrupt, murderous, out-of-control mega-gang known generically as “the government”. It’s high time the people took matters into their own hands.
I’m so f#ck!ng sick of hearing pseudo-intellectual @ssh0les debate the relative merits of the crapweasels running for office as if any of that matters! Do you really think that our civil liberties will be restored if Obama gets elected? Do you honestly believe the war will end, gas prices will drop, the government will stop screwing the poor and middle class? That the police will suddenly act like enlightened protectors of the innocent and not like the ignorant thugs that many (but not all) of them are? How freakin wonderful the bliss of that naivete must be! I wonder how much it matters to Sean Bell, his family, or his fiancee?
Now, I’m off to install Ubuntu Hardy Heron 8.04 on a server and (hopefully) forget goddamn politics, news and people. Like an ostrich, I’ll sink my head into the sands of geektopia. But come the revolution, brotha…
Today is my girl’s birthday. Because we are the silly geeks that we are, I thought she might like some silly “mag cover” pics. I got up at 5am and opened the GIMP on my new gPC (upcoming post on that), started playing with it and here are the results. Let me know when it’s your birthday and send a pic if you want the same treatment.
And, since it’s Madison’s birthday sometime this month, here’s our other birthday girl!
Tim Kissane, CEO and founder of Timbury Computer Services, has 20 years of industry experience serving large corporations (including Alcatel-Lucent, Bell Labs, and IBM), small businesses and home users. An avid proponent of Free and Open Source Software since 1994, Mr. Kissane is concerned with maintaining low-cost, unregulated publishing access to the Internet for small business and individuals.